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Nice Guys Finish First

June 19th, 2007 by Administrator

For the last 8 months, I have been contributing an article to a bi-monthly magazine called SME Insights, which focuses on small and medium enterprise management.

My editor in chief, Art Ilano, maintains a blog and talk about being nice.  In this time and age, when people believe they need to show aggressive behavior to avoid being tagged as a pushover, Art illuminates that you can actually advance more if you are wiling to be ‘nice’.

SME Insight - » The Strategy of “Nice”

Next time you think that that nice person you just met is being a pushover, think again. He may be slyer than you think.

Turns out that being nice is actually a strategy. For individuals, it is a survival strategy: by being nice, a nice person accumulates less enemies and even ends up with a larger pool of allies whom he can count on over the long term. He doesn’t get into fights in school, and he ends up with a lot of friends with whom he can share lunch with.

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2 Responses

  1. Rob Smorfitt http://main-spring.blogspot.com Says:

    I have moved from Mr Aggression to Mr Nice, and it definitely got me more allies. Mr Nice still tolerates no attempts to abuse him through non-payment and responds with suitable responses, but in a Mr Nice way. Pure busines, no aggressive emotion. It works!

  2. Administrator Says:

    Hi Rob,

    Yes, being nice is actually a demonstration of strength rather than a weakness.

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