Nice Guys Finish First
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For the last 8 months, I have been contributing an article to a bi-monthly magazine called SME Insights, which focuses on small and medium enterprise management.
My editor in chief, Art Ilano, maintains a blog and talk about being nice. In this time and age, when people believe they need to show aggressive behavior to avoid being tagged as a pushover, Art illuminates that you can actually advance more if you are wiling to be ‘nice’.
SME Insight - » The Strategy of “Nice”
Next time you think that that nice person you just met is being a pushover, think again. He may be slyer than you think.Turns out that being nice is actually a strategy. For individuals, it is a survival strategy: by being nice, a nice person accumulates less enemies and even ends up with a larger pool of allies whom he can count on over the long term. He doesn’t get into fights in school, and he ends up with a lot of friends with whom he can share lunch with.
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June 19th, 2007 at 2:34 pm
I have moved from Mr Aggression to Mr Nice, and it definitely got me more allies. Mr Nice still tolerates no attempts to abuse him through non-payment and responds with suitable responses, but in a Mr Nice way. Pure busines, no aggressive emotion. It works!
June 19th, 2007 at 4:30 pm
Hi Rob,
Yes, being nice is actually a demonstration of strength rather than a weakness.