If you are trying to become a hero cult figure trying to attract the opposite sex, you might want to think twice.  Here’s an article that proves that  While people want to fantasize about heroes, they are more deeply rooted, and the partner you may want to attract may be those that has deep roots enough to keep their feet rooted in the ground, and prefer family and security over adventure…. 

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– Job security and marriage to an accountant beat adventure and an exciting Bond-style boyfriend for most British women, a new survey said.

PARSHIP, Europe’s largest matchmaking service for singles wanting a committed relationship released results of the poll on the same week as the latest Bond film "Quantum of Solace" had its royal premiere in London.

But results showed that although British women may fantasize about a glamorous James Bond-style romance, in reality they prefer job security, an accountant boyfriend and marriage over a high-octane adventure.